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I agree with 33 - it sounds like a wussy way of breaking up with someone - I also did it at age 19 with a guy I dated for 3 years. I would say you're there for her and then back off and let her initiate contact. Live your life for yourself and if she comes around, then fine, but it sounds to me like it's time to move on. You should be with someone that wants to be with you, you can't keep waiting around for her to feel it too, that's not fair to you.