LexiKD, this is what I mean when I use the term "technical virgins". If you are perfectly happy to give and recieve orgasms through different modalities than penetration (Amycats word)intercourse then you are not being particularly virtous. And relgious virtue is probbaly the only real reason used for the whole maintaining an intact hymen idea until painful marriage dfloweration . .. which has to absolutely suck for your first experience on your marriage bed.
Also, for those maintaining virginity for Religious reasons: I doubt your GOd is much amused by all the other types of sexual contact you choose to indulge in. Remember, its the spirirt of the idea not the letter that your God holds you to. A lawyer is NOt going to get you into heaven (in fact having one talk for you might keep you out).
So keep it at least a little real or at least stop lying to us all.
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Originally posted by LexiKD
Well, here's my issue, what do you think of girls who do everything but actual sex and call themselves virgins.
My thing is, oral sex isn't intercourse, but it is very intimate and some women reserve that for a serious relationship or even after sex. Let's face it, you can still get STD's from oral sex-unless we are talking about using a condom, which how many ppl do that?
Anyway, I'm just saying that the word virgin, to me, isn't someone who has gone through the motions but just hasn't given it up 100%.
Just wondering what others thought.
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