[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

As far you saying the ladies shouldn't go overboard, what's overboard? Like in the OP the joker who took ol' girl out, how was she supposed to know what to order? I think she should be able to order whatever she wants to, as long as she plans on hanging out with the dude long term. If she doesn't like him, then she shouldn't expect a free meal from him. In fact I think the date should be cut short. Why waste time? Like I said, if I were him, I would have never taken her anywhere except maybe for coffee or something cheap, because he doesn't know her from adam. Taking her somewhere that's not high class, will also determine if she enjoys his company. If she enjoys his company, then she won't care about not going to a highclass restaurant on the 1st few dates. All I was saying is to me, it sounds like he's going to get used as a cash clown. It also sounds like he's going to continue to take her out and wine and dine her, and get nothing in return.

You are probably living in the "wrong time"... Today, those kinds of things you do is so unappreciated. It's like that movie "Gigi"--you should watch it if you already have not... It's rather pervy by today's standards.