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Old 12-19-2007, 06:29 PM
James James is offline
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Act as if you are no longer going out and live your life accordingly. You are no longer together.

Treat her with respect and courtesy but allow her to initiate contact for now, at least until you start establishing a single guy pattern.

A healthy dose of indifference could be exactly what she needs to put things in perspective. If she doesn't care that you are not around, you have an answer. If she does care she may realize she is losing you and stop playing weird mind games.

Edited to add: you are way to available to her. She isn't showing you anywhere near the same level of respect. I am offended that she has tortured you for a semester and I am not even you.
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