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Old 12-19-2007, 05:41 PM
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If she's asking you for space, then give it to her. It seems like she's confused about something, as other posters are saying, and needs some space to figure it out.

If she is worth it to you, give her some space to stretch her wings out. If she returns to you, then you have your answer. It sounds like you are trying--without meaning to--force her to come to the same level of emotion that you have for her. Stop forcing it. Don't hold on to her so tightly that she feels trapped. Tell her that you will be there for her when she's ready, and then back off a bit.

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