[FSUZeta]

animate, i just read your post. no wonder you feel an emotional wreck. sounds like you have been on a roller coaster ride of emotions-and your girl too.

from what you wrote, it sounds like your girl is searching for something, but she might just not know what it is she is searching for. whatever it is, it comes across that she feels unsettled with her life. until she figures out what she is looking for, the roller coaster ride will probably continue.

maybe she is worried about becoming a 9 to 5 adult. maybe she is trying to decide whether to continue her relationship with you or whether it should be taken to the next level. maybe she just needs to grow up a little.

you will need to decide if you are willing to stay on the ride, or if it is time to break free. you sound like a real stand up guy-i feel that you will take your girlfriends feelings into consideration when you make your decision. wishing you the best outcome.