Did you go back to the one sorority that invited you? Did they offer you a bid?
It sounds like your nerves got the better of you and the women probably thought you weren't interested. Try getting to know sorority members outside of rush - in class, at parties etc - and call the Greek life office and see if any of the groups are doing COB in the spring.
As far as recs, they never hurt.
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