the only thing that I can think of that might give a false impression of 'being mean' might be that a lot of information that is asked by prospective (i'm speaking from experience) is secret information. We all have secret stuff that only members know, so when prospectives ask--we can't tell, and that might be misinterpreted as being 'mean.' I HOPE that I've never come across this way, my sorority is always very enthusiastic about rush events and such. Wondering, I hope that if this is something that you are encountering, people being mean to you, that you let them know what you are witnessing. Most of the time, people don't even realize that they are being mean to someone or giving that impression when talking to prospectives. Bringing the subject to our attention, I will be sure to pass that along to some of the colligate members that I keep in touch with. It really is something that should be addressed.
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