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					Originally Posted by  AlphaFrog
					 
				 
				"You know, I was thinking about that, and you changed my mind - I'd like to try that too." 
 
Your waiter really won't kill you for changing your mind.   
			
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 Ah yes, it 
sounds so logical in a vacuum... but in skylark-first-date-mode I think I'd be paranoid that I'd be viewed (by my date, not the waitor) as an unoriginal copycat who doesn't know what she wants. :-)
 
My goodness, am I glad I'm not still dating. As you can see from above, dating was not exactly a relaxing experience for me a lot of the time. Coincidentally, I shared the following revelation only a week ago with my husband: I knew he was the one because he was the only man I ever dated that I felt comfortable being 100% myself (as opposed to 90% me, 10% what I thought he'd prefer).