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I'll only go out with a guy if I'm at 1st physically attracted to him, but if during the date, I start to see that he's not my type, then I'll insist that we go dutch. He can pay for his, and I'll pay for mine.
I once went out with a guy and this very thing happened. He tried to insist on paying, but I told him no, that I would pay for my own meal, because I didn't want him to get the wrong impression. I told him I didn't see a romantic connection here. When I told him that, I could see he was disappointed, and then he stopped insisting on paying. He paid for his meal and I paid for mine. That was the last time I heard from him.
If I really like a guy, then I'll let him pay. I just think it's so not cool to accept a free meal or free gifts from someone you don't even like.
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