[txcutie]

i don't think that this has been mentioned but by no means talk badly about not only other sororities, but also another rushee. whether what you say about them is true or not, it will not help you by making you look better than someone else; it just shows insecurity and sororities are attracted to confidence. my school's rush is deferred, so there is a lot of socializing between rushees and sorority girls in the fall semester and sometimes in casual occasions, and i've noticed that freshmen tend to gossip about other girls who are rushing. this is a big turn-off!