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Originally posted by ErikaXO
Molly:
I am sorry that Chi Omega cut you but I have to add my two cents. There is no way that one single person got you"axed." She may have been vociferous about her opinion, but if the rest of the chapter didn't feel that it was a factor you would not have been cut. No one person, not even Rush Chair, has that kind of authority. It is very possible that when the situation was brought up, enough people felt that it wasn't the kind of representation that they wanted. What is perfectly acceptable to one person is totally tasteless to another. We make our judgments in life, and we face the consequences of those judgments. I agree that you already had this girl labeled in a negative light as you admitted that upon your first meeting you felt she was an "ice queen bitch." Maybe she was just shy. Maybe she was having a bad day. You made your judgment of her based on your first impression, just as she made hers of you.

Anyway it is an unfortunate situation. I hope that you can get beyond this and feel more at home with KKG. KKG is an excellent sorority nationally and I am sure that you will have a fantastic greek experience with them. Just a word of advice....you might want to watch how much you pst about still wanting to be elsewhere, just out of respect for your chapter and your sisters. I know that you felt slighted, and I can understand how that hurts but it is important to remember that KKG saw things in you that were very important to them and they wanted you to be a sister....when you took your bid you pledged your loyalty to them.

Best of luck to you as a KKG.

Well said, Erika