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Cop-out answer: It all depends.
It depends on the couple, it depends on their individual personalities and beliefs and it depends on their relationship. Obviously, that is shown by the number of anecdotes given.
I did not technically live with the husband before we were married, but I also very rarely spent a night at my place. It was a mostly a place to store my stuff and spend a few hours a day getting ready for work or hanging out.
But the illusion of not living together was important to help respect the ideals of our families. Yes, I know, our lives, whatever, but that's what worked for us.
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It's gonna be a hootenanny.
Or maybe a jamboree.
Or possibly even a shindig or lollapalooza.
Perhaps it'll be a hootshinpaloozaree. I don't know.
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