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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Most cohabitated couples won't last.

Moving in together and planning a 2011 wedding is basically a guarantee that there will be no wedding.

Right! Seriously, he didn't even propose to her. She prodded and suggested, and he finally agreed to marry her. No ring (not even a ring pop!), no engagement party, no "I love you will you marry me?", nothing.

When she asked him to set a date, he said 2011! She was upset with the "wedding date" and said that since they aren't getting married anytime soon, that they need to move in together so "they can work on their trust issues" and he can "prove how serious he is about her."

It makes no sense at all to me. Really, I would expect this sort of arrangement out of an 18 year old clueless retard, but she's my age (23). I'm not a fan of living together, and I am double NOT a fan of wedding dates that are more than like 2 years away. She was like "well I want it to be really nice so I need all that time to plan." Really? I just don't think it takes 3-4 years to plan a wedding. I think he just doesn't want to marry you and is putting it off, and you're so desperate that you'll go along with anything.

But anyway, I guess people don't think to call my "1-800-OPINION" number beore doing things. LOL.