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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Something else I've seen with living together that turns me off about it is people using it to "fix" their relationship. I don't know if it's just MY friends that are doing this, but I just had one friend say to me "Well yeah Bob and I have been having some real trust issues lately, so we're moving in together and setting our wedding date or 2011." WTF? Are your issues going to magically disappear if you move in together and set some horribly far away wedding date (even though you never even said you were engaged)?
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Trust issues are the WORST reason to move in together. If you don't trust eachother, BREAK UP - don't monitor eachother's activity. That doesn't build trust, it builds resentment and MORE distrust.
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