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My sentiments about living together are similar to PhoenixAzul's.
If you live together, what happens when you get married? Nothing. Everything's the same (unless you're relocating afterwards). You go on your honeymoon, you come home, you go back to work. I want to have the experience of moving into "our first place" after marriage.
Also, the "test run" argument: if you are spending enough time together and asking enough questions, you'll find out about every little "quirk" he has. You can find that stuff out without living with someone.
I'm also deterred with the SHEER NUMBER of girls I know who have been "totally in love" who move in together because they're "totally just going to get married eventually anyway." They give up everything, have no financial security, and then have it go bad and they have nothing. I couldn't deal with that.
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 12-12-2007 at 02:16 PM.
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