Just my story...
Me and a member of XYZ sorority was in the same student group together (I didn't know that she was a XYZ at the time though). We had vibed at many meetings and when I saw her and if she saw me around campus we always said wassup to each other. One day, I saw her in the student Union and she had on her sorority jacket (which so happens to be the sorority that I am very interested in). I went up to her and was like "Hey, I didn't know you were a XYZ. Can you give me some info?." She looked at me real hard and said O.K. and asked for my number so that I could be updated on any future community service/ sorority functions. I was, of course, thrilled. It turned out that this girl was the president of the chapter at my school. She had no problem with helping me out a little because we had established a relationship prior to me knowing that she was apart of that sorority. The moral/point to my little story is that you have to understand that these women are just folks like you and me, that it just so happens that she is apart of such and so sorority. They have lives out side of, but not that far from their sororities. Wouldn't you be a bit peeved if every Mary, jane and Sue off the street were running up to you asking - right of the bat- about your sorority (basically, damn YOU). I'm so sure.
