[ealymc]

If you don't drink and a fraternity has a problem with that, it's probably not the right one for you. There are many out there that will both respect your wishes and not force you to do what doesn't feel right to you.

I agree with some of the above posters... visit the groups, go to a party or two, survey trusted friends... the only caution I have is to try and understand which personal biases may be present and why. Do your research, bro. Good luck.