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Originally Posted by BabyPiNK_FL
I agree with fantASTic to a degree, people need to take responsibilty for their whereabouts. You have to take care of yourself and be responsible for yourself. You can't just drink and expect anyone to take care of you, I don't care where you are. Even I don't really pay any mind to my drunk friends (and I stopped trying a long time ago). I'm usually the only one fully sober and I can't be bothered to run around and care for a bunch of people who aren't concerned with their welfare. I went out to have a good time too, not to babysit! That is why both men and women need to learn to make better life decisions.
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I agree about personal responsibility, but as a note my friends/family and I have "rules" so to speak when we go out. You come as you go, i.e. if we came together we leave together, no if and or buts about it. What she does after she gets home is her business. Also, the friends that tend to get shitfaced when they drink, stay HOME when we go out because we don't want to babysit all nite. Of course someone almost always ends up drinking more than they intended, but we tend to be really strong about cutting someone off, and when necessary taking them home if it gets outta hand. It sucks when you have to cut your night short but in the end it seems more worth me being temporarily mad at a friend about her drunken behavior, than being upset about things that could happen to her if we just left her on her own.