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Old 12-10-2007, 02:50 PM
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I have 5 and they are all awesome. I chose my first set based on personality traits that they both had. They were both involved, I knew them prior to recruitment. One was the little sister of my pledge sister and the other I had had a course with when I was a NM. Then my second set, one is the little sister of a boy who is dating one from my first set. I met her before recruitment when I went to her house for a goodbye party for her brother and my little sis. I thought for sure she'd go to another group, but I was so excited when we got her and I'd drive her everywhere when she was a NM and when she told me she really wanted me as her big, I almost peed myself I was so happy. The other one from that set was a bit more random, but I chose her because she seemed so independent and was so smart. Then my last one is another legacy and also the younger sister of another pledge sister. She appealed to me even before I met her, and then once I met her I knew that she had to be my little. She is just so personable and quirky! The day I met her I was told that she was going to be my little and I almost knocked my pledge sister (the big sister of the first legacy) to the ground! Anyway, picking a little is very important. And if you're lucky (and I have been very lucky!) everything will work out fine as long as you're willing to put in the effort to show her what a great person and sister you are and teach her her history and how to make friends within the chapter. You are really more of a mentor than a best friend, but I can say that I'm besties with at least two of my littles as well! Good luck!
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