Did I miss something?
It seems as though this could have been handled via PM. If AKA2D was the moderator that deleted your post, I'm sure she had a good reason to do so. My guess is that the topic may have been discussed before. Did you do a search for previous threads? Just a thought.
Also, if the moderator of your forum feels any thread and/or post by someone outside of your fraternity is inappropriate, then I'm sure he would take the same action if he so chooses. We, as moderators and sorors that frequent this forum, made a collective decision a very long time ago among ourselves to stick to some basic rules regarding the discussion of various issues. It is possible this could have been one of them. If you feel strongly about discussing this particular issue, then maybe another forum may be the best avenue for you to pursue.
I trust the decision my soror made and as a co-moderator stand firmly beside her.