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I would take the initiative and invite sisters out to things. Show up to everything that you can that is going on.
As the previous poster stated, seek out open leadership positions. A leadership position will put you in a place to work closely with others in yoru chapter in order to get things accomplished and will allow you to get to know others better. Also dont be afraid to gather you whole pledge class together for an outing (this can be as simple as just going bowling). My guess would be that you are not the only one who is shy and eager to make bonds with others.
Also keep in mind that with a group your size and larger it is about impossible to be close friends with everyone. My chapter had 60 when I joined and 70 by the time i left. I was not close with everyone, but I am proud to say I knew who everyone was and a few things about each of them.
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Kappa Alpha Theta-Life Loyal Member
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