[kathykd2005]

Logically, if a group only has a limited number of spaces, not everyone can be extended a bid to any organization. That is just common sense. The group may like the entire group, but it is not physically possible for all of the men to be accepted, due to those constraints. Even if they are the nicest, most diplomatic group, all organizations have voting processes, and all of them have their own decisions to make on a personal level. That doesn't mean that many of the men in that group didn't like the potentional member--it just means that maybe one of the members did not get to know the pm enough to want to extend him an offer to become a brother. I don't think being nice to people to get to know them is "feigning interest" at all.