[Wolfman]

There's an irony in that many of the posts call for the woman to "get a life and move on." When people who suffer traumas of various kinds do just that and bury them in their "past," one day, prompted by some strange occurance, out of the blue these things may come rushing back into their consciousness with all the same raw emotions and ambivalent feelings about the people involved.These things can't be swept under the rug of our hearts and minds.This is why we do need clergy,friends, family and psychological professionals, at times.