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Originally Posted by James
Well you withdrew from your college so there are only two things I can think you need to know:
1. Are you an initiated member?
2. Are you in good standing?
If you are not an initiated member then number 2 doesn't matter.
These are simple questions. Has there been ambiguity on whether you are initiated or not?
Also, did you end on bad terms with your chapter? Because it almost seems like you believe they may have terminated you or not filed your paperwork on purpose.
Anyway, without knowing the answer to the first two questions everything else is moot.
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yes, I am an initiated member. initiated last spring. That is one of the questions that I have asked about my standing. At the start of the semester I was put on bad standing because my chapter forgot to turn in all that paperwork, but now I think that was fixed. I called them today to make sure my status was fixed, but she sounded hesitant and didnt really give me an answer thats why I'm not sure she was telling me the full answer. when I called my chapter before calling nationals, they didnt tell me either, they said "all you can do is call national to found out"
I dont think I ended on bad terms. I told them I was thinking about withdrawing, then over the summer contacted the president letting her know that I wasnt returning. One sister told me that people were upset when they found out I was leaving, but the reason I withdrew from school was not because of the sorority, but I feel like they think that is the reason and I have no idea why. this year I have visited some of my sisters over the weekends.
and yes, I have gotten my badge, but it was mailed to me about a week ago.