Sorry to crash ... I am truly sorry for your loss and for the grief that you and his mommy must be feeling. I pray that you both can find peace, that your lady is able to heal with the utmost support and help, and that you have the strength to hold your little family tight.
sidenote:
Perhaps we can all light a candle for you and for all those who have lost children (this is a sheer coincidence I saw this today) ...
The Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle Lighting (from About.com)
http://dying.about.com/od/rememberin...andlelight.htm
"...Every year since 1997 on the second Sunday in December The Compassionate Friends (TCF) hold a Worldwide Candle Lighting in memory of all children who have died too soon.
The event is held at 7:00 p.m. for one hour in every time zone to create a 24-hour wave of light that encircles the globe to honor and remember all children who have died. As candles go out in one time zone, they are lit in the next zone, to create a virtual 24-hour memorial--candles to encircle the globe.
read more here:
http://dying.about.com/od/rememberin...andlelight.htm