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Soror 2D, I agree with you, I don't see it either, but she did. So much so that she doesn't even greet her sorors when she sees them because of how she is treated after they find out how she was made. But I also think that it is just where she lives, because I've never experienced anything like that. As far as I can tell, ain't nobody on it all like that. However, try and put yourself in that person's shoes. If EVERY soror that you met in your area turned their nose up at you (RIGHT after you crossed), how willing would you be to go to ANY events or work with ANY of these women? I know if that had been my experience, I would have completely re-thought my decision. Because really, you don't know what you're getting yourself into until you are in, you know what I'm sayin? And then to have such negative experiences RIGHT AFTER crossing, what, exactly, would make you WANT to remain active? Unless you move? And who's moving to find a better chapter?
Now, my opinion on the mess? The ladies (and I use the term loosely) turning their noses up at her probably aren't even active. Because you tell me, who is turning away people who are willing to work w/i the chapter???? And this gets kinda off the subject of this thread, and onto the other thread that you started, BUT, it is all a part of why people are inactive or choose to disassociate themselves from the organization. If you are not being treated SISTERly by your SISTERS, why would you want to be a part of the SISTERhood? I understand that everyone is NOT going to like you, but come on, now, you can still be sisterly.
Basically, everyone's experiences are different, and most often the differences are regional. But that's just my take on it.
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