Before college, I think I had read a couple magazine articles that talked about Greek life. When I got to college, we had deferred rush and I lived in a very Greek dorm so I learned a lot.
I don't think it's so much not having GC to learn from, it's being overly bold in any situation that you don't know about. I would have never walked up to a sorority member and said "I'm going to pledge you!" As much of a dork as my freshman year boyfriend was, I was kind of lucky that I had someone older (he was a senior) to help me out, because I was clueless.
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