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Originally Posted by OtterXO

I've been a MOH and from my experience the responsibilities are: planning/hosting the bridal shower (sometimes in conjunction with the other bridesmaids); planning/hosting bachelorette party (if the bride wants one); taking the lead on picking dresses, shoes, jewelry (depending on the bride, obviously) and fielding complaints from the other girls who don't like the dress/shoes/jewelry; regulating on bridesmaids if necessary; holding the bouquet for the bride during the vows at the wedding; making sure her dress looks good from the back for the photographs.....and that's all I can think of right now. Good luck, it's a big job but fun!

Yeah we had lunch today and went over a little of this stuff. I'm not looking forward to the "fielding complaints" part though. LOL. We will be choosing dresses with her future sister in law, but I'd like to think that I know most of the bridesmaids well enough to choose something that they can agree on.

I know that I'm going to the bachelorette party and another bridesmaid wants to take the lead on the shower.