A lot of girls go into recruitment (rush) with their hearts set on a few sororities in particular. You are right when you say that you need to stop it. I suggest keeping an open mind to ALL of the sororities in rush because you never know what might happen.
For example, you could have your heart set on these 2 sororities, but they might decide (for whatever reason) not to invite you back. Then you'd be very hurt and disappointed. But if you keep an open mind, you wouldn't be that upset about it because you'd be like "well at least I have these other sororities to check out." 
About the whole race thing, I rushed and joined my sorority through informal recruitment, and i'm Black. Honestly, you just have to be yourself and let the chips fall where they may.
I suggest looking at some of the advice threads in the Sorority Recruitment forum. They have lots of good info.
Good luck!
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 12-03-2007 at 08:32 PM.
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