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Originally Posted by kathykd2005
I hate saying this, but it sounds like this woman simply needs to go to some therapy and move on. I empathize with her being raped, but at what point do you allow yourself to heal, and say "screw them for making me feel that way"? She said herself she tried to use other things to make herself feel better.
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So true. Until she does let go and moves on, this event and these people will continue to have power over her on a daily basis. Twenty years is a lifetime to hold onto this poison and she needs to let go. She can't change what happened to her but for her own mental functionality, she needs to change how she looks at it. Obviously she doesn't have to like it but she needs to come to terms with it and stop allowing these people to have power over her life after all these years.