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For what it is worth, 20 years ago when I was an advisor -having sex in a public place with a fraternity boy would be a reason to see standards. I've posted elsewhere about the member who chose to have sex on a fraternity pool table and in a phone booth - she chose to resign rather than deal with standards. I don't buy into the whole "Oh,in the 80s and 90s everyone was doing drugs and having sex" arguement. I think the response of the chapter might well depend on the campus and the particulars.
I feel for the writer of this piece for the same reasons everyone has noted - she has issues to this day, and is obviously in pain. I'm sorry her sisters failed her so.
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