[Scandia]

I agree with them for the most part.

I am not purposely looking for someone rich- but being financially irresponsible is a major turnoff at best, a dealbreaker at worst.

And being a leader does NOT equal being bossy. I think both spouses should be equal partners. Not into gender roles here. If one is more leaderlike than the other, so be it- but one should not overpower the other or boss him/her around.