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I'm sorry about your experience, Molly, and hope you enjoy Kappa. I would like to add that there is no such thing as a sure thing during rush. At UF and most of the other SEC schools there are many more coming through rush than can get into any one sorority.

Also, at my school we pledge very very few sophs, and its much more difficult for them during rush. UF is prolly similar. That may have been a factor, too.

Not to pass judgement on, but you did refer to your first meeting with her as the "ice queen bitch." If you felt that way at the time, then she prolly picked up on some of your feelings toward her and visa versa. It was unfortunate for you she turned out to be the rush chair.

All I can say is when PNMs meet actives during the spring and summer before rush, first impressions carry a lot of weight, and will carry over into rush. This is especially true for those larger campuses where the rush process is very hectic and competitive. It is not easy during rush to "right" a situation. And, fair or not, the rush chair is not the one to get on the wrong side of.

Again, I hope things work out well with you and KKG. They are one of the better houses on my campus.