^^^Hahaha, AMEN!
My mother never really monitored what I was listening to because I was such a good girl (read: ridiculously moralistic and uptight) that she trusted I would never listen to anything inappropriate. I can only remember two times when she took a CD away and those were songs by TLC--I'd listen to anything that was by them, whether it was inappropriate or not. I remember when I first heard "T-Shirt" by Destiny's Child. I practically went into cardiac arrest thinking of what would happen to me if my father-manager heard me sing those words.
This brings up a question. There was a song pretty far back by Ashanti and Ja-Rule and one of the lines was "I love it when you thug me, baby." Exactly what is "thugging" a woman?