[Cluey]

This is going to sound crazy, but it depends on what your love language is. I have found that I tend to agree with that book and how people express their feelings for others.

For me, I like to give and receive gifts. I'm also not a good liar when I get a crappy present. For example, an ex of mine gave me a pen once. No joke! I had given him a list of things that I wanted, yet he had decided not to listen to me, not to go with things that he knows that I would like and get me a pen. I felt like I was stuck in Say Anything -- "I gave you my heart and you gave me a pen?" What in the world would make that seem like a good idea? I have no clue.