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It's not like she said nasty rude things or horribly shallow remarks like "I don't want to be here because of their chipped toenail polish" or "I don't like their fake pearls". And it's not like she's telling the story in real time, so what would be "used against her"?

It's understandable that it was awkward at the colonizing chapter. Group conversations with members of the sorority from another school, it's not going to click for most people, and frankly, it doesn't have to since they will not be chapter sisters. A colonizing class has to be interested in colonizing and the work it entails.