Be sure to take care of yourself first. As such, only you can decide if you should go back.
Now if you do go back, take the high road. As hard as it may be to do so, when ever possible just ignore the sister you have issues with. Also, are there any other members that you would feel comfortable to discuss this situation with prior to the meeting? It would be nice to have at least have one member "on your side", as it were, at the meeting. Someone you can hang out with and know will be supportive of you.
And one final piece of advice if I may. If you find you need to discuss an issue that may somehow involve her (or address her), do not make it personal. Just keep your discussions related to sorority affairs.
Best of luck.
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