As usual, I have to say that I can see both Sigmagrrl and Lovelyivy84 points. While I believe that having all types of friends (regardless of race, creed, color, or sexual orientaion) is vital, it's also very hard to make those friends, and keep those friends if you make a decision that does not sit well with them.
Sometimes, Black people can be really hard on one another. I know, I've been ostracized myself! But that doesn't mean I give up on all Black people, stereotype them and walk away. It's just not always easy to please the people around you - especially when they feel they have the right to say something!
Personally I think you should keep an open mind and a welcome hand to everyone. If you attempt to be friends with some of the Black people on your campus and they are unkind to you, shrug and count it as their loss. Because it is! But if someone approaches you and wants to be your friend, got for it! Don't walk away because you've been hurt before. Give it a try.
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