[bluz4]

four years ago, my now-boyfriend and i dated for like a month and then parted ways. after a year or so, i got mugged and he heard about it. he called to see how i was doing, and the rest is history. our relationship blossomed like i never thought it would. so i have to say that sometimes when you are with someone, its not the right time for you two to be together. and sometimes if you are lucky, you get another chance and you should take it. like we did.

in the same breath though, i have to say that sometimes if a relationship comes back, you have to give it another swift kick to make sure that it never comes back again. my ex has not changed even though we have stayed in touch. what didnt work for us then, still doesnt work. and he still is trying to cast blame and make me feel bad. so while we are still friends, we could really never get back together and i dont think i would want to.