What test? Stereotypes of what it means to be black have little if anything to do with reality, and while you WILL find some black folk on "soul patrol" I think there are plenty who will accept you for yourself, with no conditions as to how you behave.
Are you sure that you are not doing it to yourself? Are people really checking to see if you "fit"? Or are you merely stereotyping the first? I know more than a couple of people (black, white, gay, whatever) who were afraid to approach me because they thought I would judge them, when really I am the last one to do so!
So I just think you need to re-examine your own perceptions before you make accusations of things you might be guilty of yourself....
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