For me, it wasn't necessarily a specif moment, but back in HS, two of my teachers/mentors were AKA's n I had another teacher that was a Delta...The two mentors that were AKA's had this way about them that, I didn't even know they were AKA's till a while after I got to know them...not that they weren't proud of being AKA's but they felt that it didnt define them as a women. it spoke for itself...I admired it sooo much....The delta, on the other hand, well, she was just, ya no....different.