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Originally Posted by skylark
Our college panhellenic started out with this policy. I agree that this is more beneficial to panhellenic as a whole since it allows for more opportunities for interaction... but it is a slippery slope because no one can monitor private conversations to make sure dirty rushing isn't going on. Every year we hear stories about how one group told girls not to do formal recruitment because the group would just COB the girls afterwards (our chapter total is WAY too high) or else the girls would make up things about other groups' policies and tell the PNMs.
I guess it is a good policy in theory, but it sure opens an unrestricted door for women who don't care about the fact that panhellenic wants them to talk up panhellenic rather than talk up their own group and talk down the others.
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Would you even want a rushee whose integrity allows her to put any stock in this type of talk?
I hope you really didn't mean you want to monitor private conversations. And listening to stories about what
might have been said by someone else isn't really giving the other party a chance, is it? It's more like condemning based on gossip.