Corbin, I feel the same as you. I think every sorority/fraternity has excellent records of service, and not just "propaganda." The contribution of these organizations, on the national level, has been significant. And I also feel that my sorority is changing. Frankly, I am part of many things (schools and organizations) that would not have admitted me because of my color however many years ago. Hell, who am I kidding? I am in Korea teaching English and to put it frankly, most parents would like to have their students taught by people with white faces. Many parents feel black people simply cannot speak "proper" English. I know that, and did it make me say, "well, since some people feel/felt that way, I'm not going to take advantage of it?" Certainly not. I choose in all areas of my life that which I desire for myself, and that which suits me, regardless of the ignorant opinions of others.
And while I have strong feelings for my sorority, they do spring from my feelings for my chapter. We are the only chapter in California. We are trying to get an alumnae chapter in California going as well. So basically, 99% of the time I will spend with AST members will be from my chapter or from the alumnae chapter we are trying to get started. We, like everyone else, have bonds with sisters across the country who share our letters because we took the same oaths, went through the same processes, and share "secrets." We all contribute to the same national philanthropy, have the same ceremonies, etc. But all my *real* experience has been through my chapter and through the people there. Should I move to another state and there is an alumnae group there, I will definitely participate and will *want* to participate, but that desire comes from my chapter, if you see what I'm trying to say.
[This message has been edited by mwedzi (edited August 09, 2000).]
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