[SthrnZeta]

I can't imagine that happening in Zeta, but I guess collegiates "think in the moment" as someone else said and maybe times have changed. Still really sad though... I just hope I don't encounter a Zeta chapter that feels that way, or I would suggest trying it at least. There's no harm in changing the way things are done sometimes, especially if it will make the ceremony all the more special for one of the initiates. I sincerely hope I have a daughter and that she decides to join Zeta so I can be there at her initiation. That would be beyond special! Zeta thinks very highly of relatives, so much so that we have a pin just for mothers, so I would think this is an organizational thing and not just a chapter thing...