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They called and basically told me not to come! The chapter advisor talked to the Rituals Chair (is that a collegian?) and she said she had never even considered such an option. The other legacy's sister is currently an active member and she will be there, but they assured me she wouldn't be taking any special part in the ceremony in regard to her sister. They pretty much stressed that my daughter would be well taken-care-of and there was no need for me to make the trip. The Chapter Advisor said they've never really invited legacy relatives before (at least in this group of girls' time in the chapter). I did ask at Gamma Chapter's Founder's Day dinner today and the brand new actives and other collegiate members said they no longer did it at my own chapter either. Alas. Times have changed. At least now I now I made the effort and she won't be left out if other local legacy relatives are there... because there won't be any. Thanks for the support, though! You guys have been great!
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