Well, I finally got brave enough to call the chapter advisor. She was very nice but didn't seem to know the answer. She said if the other legacy (there's one other) had a local person, she might be coming but If I was far away it wasn't necessary! I don't think she got it!! I know it's not necessary; that's not the point!! Anyhow, I asked if there was any way of knowing if the other person had been contacted by someone and was coming. She said she'd talk to the rituals chair, who is organizing the ceremony, today and see what she could find out. I told her I didn't want to make them do something they don't necessarily do, but if the other legacy's relative was going to be there, I would definitely come. (We were planning on going to Arizona the next day anyway and it would sort of (ha!) be on the way). Wish me luck. I'll know later today I think.
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