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I would probably guess that the love and loyalty for his fraternity is a different type of love then he has for you.
If you truely love him just be happy with your relationship for what it IS right now and give it time. Every guy has to grow up at some point, I was intensely involved in my organization and now two years after graduating, I maybe hang out with some of my brothers regularly, and maybe 1 to 3 times a quarter I'll go stop by an official event of some sort, but honestly I wish I could find a good girl to kind of calm my life down more and just have laid back fun weekends with.
So what I'm basically saying is, he'll grow up, and he'll still love his fraternity just as much, but his life will stop revolving around it. So if you really love him, wait.
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