LPI, that's an excellent idea - really puts my mind at ease
We were driving down Milledge in Athens, GA (where all the Greek housing is at UGA) and I was making a comment about how if I ever have a daughter I'm gonna get her all the ZTA legacy stuff and how neat it would be to be at her initiation if she went ZTA and he was saying how he hopes his kids go to UGA like he did, etc. and he definitely slipped up and said "our kids" more than once
And he agreed with me that he was thinking marriage in the future for us, but I don't know if he'll want to make that commitment before he leaves - I would just feel better if I had a stronger commitment when he left for my own piece of mind. Being able to look down at my finger and remember we have that to look forward to sure would be nice, ya know?
Your possum story was hilarious, btw! Typical that you have stuff like that when he's gone - what am I gonna do with all the spiders when he's gone???