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Originally Posted by SmartBlondeGPhB
1) Right off the bat you are stating that the group approached the person. COMPLETELY different situation. I was referring to the woman approaching the group. And I said I would question them, hence I'm giving the benefit of the doubt to start.
2) I did question someone who wanted to AI with my alumnae chapter (she went to WA St Univ.) and I never heard from her again once I started asking questions so obviously, she didn't like my questions. Since her first email was very excited to find this opportunity.
3) The OP said she was dropped, in my mind that should be enough for all of us. I for one, trust my sisters.
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No doubt there are some weirdos out there, and I think it's odd when individuals try to approach the group too, but they may not understand how it's supposed to work.
If a women went through every kind of recruitment and was dropped a bunch of times, I'd question her interest and qualifications.
But I also know that at many big Greek campuses good young women do slip through the cracks at some great chapters or drop out of recruitment.
I'm not sure that when you are whittling down the 1000+ PNMs to your pledge class of about 50, that every cut unnecessarily reflects any kind of absolute lifelong judgment about a women.
Even if a girl did get cut out of rush midway when she was 18, I'm not sure that means she wouldn't be a good AI later. But I agree that I'd ask some questions.